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Okay my friend been with this guy for three years, but for the past year it has been really rocky for them. He Went into the Marines and for the past six months his been in Iraq. when he left things weren't so good, but they always kept in touch. She dating someone now and feels they should go further than just dating, but she haven't told her boyfriend yet because he has hope that when he gets back they'll be together. Now can we blame her for wanting to move on? is it worth it to wait on him?
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| POSTED BY: H on 07/09/2008 17:21:32 |
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Because she has already moved on, it is too late for her to think about waiting for him to come back. A Marine needs a certain type of woman. A woman that is mentally strong & stable and that will stand by her man through out it all. Six months is nothing. There might be times where he could be gone for years. Not everyone is able to handle that. Actually a majority of people cant handle that. When I was in Iraq I saw my share of Marines and Sailors getting their "Dear John" letters. Its a horrible site to see. When you get a letter your more excited than ever. Smiling from ear to ear. Dropping from that high up can be fatal. One of the biggest things that drive us to do what we do is what we have waiting for us back at home. So when that is tainted or taken away it can lead to many unsafe roads. I've seen it happen several times before. Your friend has put her relationship with said Marine in jeopardy. Now it plays for the new boyfriend to think that she might leave him if he steps out for too long. I could go on for days about this but I'm a horrible typer.
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SHAME ON YOU!
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Wow, i see what H is saying but I also heard similar things going on with the soldiers in Iraq. My friend who served over a year in Iraq told me that the men over there pay around a lot also. Specially the high ranking ones. So, if your friend feel she can't wait, it would be best to just go withthe new guy and let the old boyfriend knows that they are done. but then again, knowing how some the guys who come from battle has so much stress,depression, and everything else, would it be good to tell him while he is there or when he comes back. I don't know.
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SexxyLou wrote:
Okay my friend been with this guy for three years, but for the past year it has been really rocky for them. He Went into the Marines and for the past six months his been in Iraq. when he left things weren't so good, but they always kept in touch. She dating someone now and feels they should go further than just dating, but she haven't told her boyfriend yet because he has hope that when he gets back they'll be together. Now can we blame her for wanting to move on? is it worth it to wait on him?
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If She is dating someone else already she is not waiting for him. So this question is not even worth asking? |
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Well, If it's worth it if they really meant something for each other...At least, she should less of a hypocrite to tell him before he left, that he would be possible that she won't to wait for him...I'm in the army myself, and about to leave for iraq, i wanna know before i leave if you are gonna be strong or not..I've seen people doing it and they are fine.
Then again, it all depends on how the relationship was going before he left. |
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